4 Text Messages to Save Your Marriage

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— 4 Text Messages to Save Your Marriage

Hey there, YouTube! You guys asked for it, and I delivered… in this video, I’m going to talk about 4 text messages you can send to your spouse right now that will re-spark some of the passion and romance that’s been missing for so long. Yes, rekindling some of the desire and attraction CAN be that easy if you know what you’re doing…

It’s Brad Browning here, by the way. I’m a marriage coach and best-selling author. Now, before I get started with this video, I first have to tell you how to NOT text your husband or wife. These are text messages that don’t build attraction, romance, or passion. And in some cases, these common text messages can actually make your spouse feel less attracted to you. So let’s jump into some examples of what NOT to text your spouse before we get into what TO text your spouse.

Bad Text #1 – The Demanding Text Message

It’s obviously okay to ask your spouse to do something for you. After all, you and your spouse are married and you are a team. However, if you start demanding too much of your spouse, you could turn yourself into what I like to call a “Texting Terrorist”.

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53 thoughts on “4 Text Messages to Save Your Marriage

  1. Can you make a video on how to work in a situation where ur spouse shows u
    alot of attitude and u hav to beg and plead in front of him after every
    fite as he takes his own good time to get back

    1. +Ankita Vig Sorry you’re going through this. Spouses can really give you a
      hard time. I’m in the process of posting a vid of how to deal with a spouse
      who’s acting distant. In the meantime, do understand that by begging and
      pleading, you’re setting the stage of how your future interactions with him
      will be if the same situation arises. I suggest that you DON’T beg or plead
      next time since that will only chip away at whatever respect/love he has
      for you, okay? You ought to give him time and space without begging and let
      him come to his own senses instead of giving him what he wants whenever he
      throws a tantrum, okay? Remember, you’re not dealing with a child, you’re
      dealing with your spouse, so treat him like one. 🙂

    2. +Brad Browning I believe this is the source of my problems. I beg my wife a
      lot ever since we started dating just to make the relationship work even
      though it doesn’t make me happier. Now she’s so tuned to believe she’s
      right about everything and won’t apologize for any of her wrong actions.
      Now she keeps distance from me over issues she can’t really pin-point and
      complains about everything. We still stay together but she won’t
      communicate with me except when she needs something. Its been a difficult
      time for me

  2. Hey brad, my ex dumped me 5 months ago, I did beg and plead for 3 months
    and it didn’t work of course.
    Every time I come to see her, she’s angry, getting emotional and swept me
    out of her room.
    She never contact me even once since our breakup. She blocked me on almost
    every communication except email.
    When I sent her an email, she replied “please don’t bother me anymore”.
    I stopped everything, and I’m on NC for almost 30 days…
    What should I do next brad?

    1. +Trash ID Hey man, sorry to hear about the breakup. I hate to say this, but
      the main reason why she never contacted you since the breakup is because
      you never gave her a chance to. How is she supposed to do that if you’re
      already constantly bombarding her with messages? Give her her peace first.
      I couldn’t emphasize the importance of cutting off communication first, so
      check out my videos on this, as well as how begging/pleading is a mistake
      which will only hurt more than help your chances. Watch these:
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tNRL7dWCTA and
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itSm2XnQAzI

    2. +Brad Browning Now it’s 35th days of no contact, what should I do Brad?
      We’re in the middle of exam, and I’m sure she’s studying real hard…

    1. +0401412740 Well, I do my best and squeeze a video whenever possible, on
      top of answering the comments here. 🙂 Feel free to like, share, and
      subscribe to my channel so you won’t miss any of my upcoming videos. I’d
      really appreciate it!

    1. +James G Rivera Yeah? Thanks! Feel free to like, share, and subscribe to my
      channel so you won’t miss any of my upcoming videos. I’d really appreciate
      it! 🙂

  3. Awesome video! All of your texting tips for texting with your spouse make
    complete sense and I’m sure will help a lot of couples.

    1. +Timothy Packard Thank you! Feel free to like, share, and subscribe to my
      channel so you won’t miss any of my upcoming videos. I’d really appreciate
      it! 🙂

  4. Hey bro! I just wanted to say! I broke up with my girlfriend last year. I
    was heartbroken. I followed all of your steps. And yes they work and they
    are successful. But what you taught me I learned another way. I learned to
    move on from my ex. And now I’m with the love of my life. I just want to
    say thanks. A lot. This was the only Youtube page I was following during
    that dark time last year. Thanks a bunch man! Keep on helping to change
    people’s lives. You did for me. Thanks! You can quote me on this. You are
    by far the best at what you do Brad Browning. Everything you say, every
    tactic. It works. Thank you!

    1. +Anshil Jose Yes, things like these do happen and I’m happy for you and
      your decision and that I was able to help out somehow. 🙂 Thanks for
      sharing your story and for the compliment. Feel free to like, share, and
      subscribe to my channel so you won’t miss any of my upcoming videos. I’d
      really appreciate it! 🙂

  5. Hi brad my gf dumped me because she thought I was lying to her but I was
    telling the truth I’ve got proof and now she hates me I’m really upset
    about it and I hope she doesn’t hate me forever. I don’t know what to do.
    She thought I was talking to somebody she hates which I never spoke I just
    said hi

    1. +Prabhraj Singh Sandhu Let it be a lesson for you, man, and try not to stir
      up drama next time. Your ex’s reaction is normal. Try to clear out the
      misunderstanding with her once she’s calm and/or receptive. If not, you
      probably have to cut off contact for at least a month. Watch this:
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwQpYmDKNnE

  6. + Brad Browning hello brad Ive watched almost all of your videos and Im
    done with the no contact so I texted my EX doubting that he would reply to
    my surprise he did write back to me not long but a very short message if
    anything was going on with and I am unsure what my next step is would you
    please help me??

    1. +Hwarang Kim That means you’ve done the “no contact” phase right! 🙂 How
      you continue depends how you started the conversation and where you’re
      going with it, so I’m afraid I can’t give an input unless I know what you
      texted him, as well as his response. Sign up for my coaching program so I
      can take a look at all the other factors at play, monitor your situation,
      and guide you on a regular basis at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

  7. Hi Brad, me and my partner have been together for two years now, he is a
    good person except he is still in contact with his ex. They talk every day
    and text when I argue and tell him that he should stop the communication he
    would say ” she is depressed and I’m her only support and I hate her and
    can stand a minute with her.
    I’m expecting and hard for me leave because this is not normal situation
    but now I feel I’m stuck and started to act like a passive aggressive just
    to don’t be stressed all the time.
    But I really think of leaving I need a better environment for my baby.
    your thoughts???

    1. +Sara Ibr Sorry to hear that. Try NOT to make rash decisions though. Give
      it some time first, or better yet, try to talk to him about this issue. I
      understand this is your boyfriend you’re dealing with and not your ex,
      right? So try to connect with him first. Have you tried telling him how his
      contact with your ex is making you feel? Has he tried to meet you halfway
      to make you feel better? Try offering solutions instead of complaining all
      the time. Brainstorm on a solution together and work as a team. 🙂 Sorry I
      can’t be any more specific than if I were to know more about your
      situation. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can be more
      enlightened as to what’s really going on and therefore be more specific
      with my suggestions, at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Good luck!

  8. suggestion: never text anything that might cause him/her stress when they
    are at work. My husband hates this.

  9. I have been married for four years, made the mistake of not maintain my
    marriage and her friends encouraged her to leaving me.She moved out with
    her friends. I wanted to make plan to see if she was interested to save our
    marriage but we got into a big argument and said hurtful things to each
    other. I told her to pick up her stuff and leave. The next day I changed my
    mind since she has very little money, working two jobs, staying at her
    friends place baby sitting. Her friends are rooting her for divorce, but
    wife doesn’t have car,no credit and she live in downtown LA with Ghetto
    roommates. She is being fooled and I am afraid she will get hurt. What
    should I do? This week I am suppose to file a divorce?

    1. +ednakazuya12 Sorry to hear that, man. It’s tough to conclude anything at
      this point, though, since there’s hardly any background to the story. So
      what led to all this? What mistakes were you referring to, exactly? Since
      she has moved out, have you given her space to let her brew her anger a
      bit? Do that first as it lets you think clearly as well, all right? Sign up
      for my Mend the Marriage program so I can
      help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have
      missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis, at
      http://www.marriageguy.com/coaching

  10. hey Brad my gf of 7 years broke up with me like 2 weeks ago it’s tough on
    me she leaving at the end of this month we have a kid as well so I have to
    communicate with her and still see her I still love her and I know she
    feels something as well this is twice she tries to leave me because I don’t
    change and this time it’s serious her mom is telling me to fight for her
    show her my love which I have but is not working effectively I need help

    1. +Ivan Herrera Hey man, I think I’ve just answered your concern on the
      previous/the same video with you asking similar issues in that comment, so
      please refer to that. 🙂

  11. Hi Brad, Thanks for this amazing video! My spouse never listens to me and
    he always breaks/throws things when he is angry for small issues. He
    threatens to hit me too. I’m always scared that anything I do might make
    him angry and he would start throwing things. I’m scared and depressed, I
    have a kid with him and I’m afraid how all this is going to affect my kid.
    Can you please suggest me what should I do?

    1. +Lavanya Kumari How long has this been going on and what are his usual
      emotional triggers (try to avoid pressing them)? Moreover what role did you
      play in this fight? A lot of factors have to be taken into consideration so
      I’m afraid I don’t have a cut and dry answer as to what’s going on, unless
      I know more about your situation. Whatever the case though, I suggest to
      seek shelter and consider moving out form this type of home since that’s
      definitely NOT healthy for you and your kid, all right? Take care!

  12. vins sweetyHey Brad, my bf chose his mother over me, but he says I am his
    life, but v cant marry. What should I do?Plz reply asap

    1. +vins sweety How old is this guy? Sorry, but I’m
      not sure why parents had to get involved. It’s either you’re both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Either way, it’s best to consider moving on from this, okay? Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

  13. Thankyou Brad , n yes culture is involved and I really wish that I get him
    back. I hope 30NC rule vl work here too

    1. You’re welcome! If you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe
      to my channel so you won’t miss any of my upcoming videos. I’d really
      appreciate it! 🙂

  14. Hey Brad, thanku so much. NC rule really works. My ex is back to me. But
    still one problem is there. He is still not ready to marry as he cant go
    against his family nd he wants me to wait for another 2-3 years. But I
    cant. What should I do? Please reply ASAP.

    1. That’s good, but you BOTH ought to reach a compromise or meet halfway on
      how to proceed, okay? Why are you in a hurry to marry? 🙂 I’m not sure if
      this has anything to do with cultural barrier or something similar, but
      understand that this is his choice too, so try not to rush things, okay?
      Focus on having a good time instead and rebuilding your relationship from
      scratch. Good luck!

    2. Hi Brad , thanku once again. Your suggestions means a lot. We are trying to
      rebuild our relation but sometimes I get doubt on him if he vl cheat on me
      again? If he telling a lie to me And he says that if I want to marry some1
      else its my decision as my parents want me to get marry and settle down in
      my life as I am crossing age. . This hurts me when he says he vl not talk
      to his mother for another two years and I dont have time . My parents are
      seeing another guy for me. What should I do

    1. Sorry to hear that. I’m sure that wasn’t always the case though (otherwise
      you wouldn’t have married him in the first place)…so what happened?
      Something as solid as a marriage won’t deteriorate just like that. Stuff
      tends to happen slowly.
      But without knowing more, it’s hard for me to give real advice.
      My first suggestion is probably not to change anything and to just leave
      him be. Don’t bring up any drama or anything that will make the situation
      worse. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, I recommend
      you sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at
      http://www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!

    2. I guess that just leaves you with more time to find and do what you’re
      interested in! Time to make plans and make him miss you! =)

  15. Watched every video almost in last week after 10 years I give up! Second
    time this year and he is gone…im just concentrating on me…its been 5
    weeks this time. And its less contact this time…tried everything you
    said,all i got was a few jealous comments from him occasionally.

    1. Sorry to hear that. If he has left before, then the the second time around
      should be a cause for concern indeed. What happened? Use this time and
      space apart to try and see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all
      this mess, okay? From there, you can be honest with yourself on whether or
      not the issue/s you have can be resolved — a few aren’t, depending on the
      issue. If you need my help further on
      this, however, then we ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play,
      so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at
      http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

  16. i tried the private text and his reply was “wtf haha what’s wrong with you”
    it was akward enough to begin with and his reaction left me feeling
    mortified and discouraged

    1. The example I gave on this vid applies to when you’re in a social situation
      together, and should only be used whenever applicable, obviously. If you
      text him that out of the blue, that’d appear awkward indeed. 🙂
      If you need my help further on
      this, however, then we ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play,
      so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at
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