Best Way To Respond While Trying To Save My Marriage?

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One of our live callers asks: How can I respond to my wife? She is in an affair, but when she speaks with me, she seems confused. These are the conflicting messages I hear:

-She says I’m perfect.
-She wonders how she can heal while spending time with me.
-She says that she is not capable of loving anyone.

In response to this caller, Dr. Joe Beam explains the importance of listening. Dr. Joe Beam also clarifies what our Marriage Coaches teach: to not do anything that makes the other person feel manipulated, controlled, or pressured.

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With this in mind, Dr. Joe Beam says it’s also okay for this caller to be honest about his feelings. For example, saying, “I understand how you feel, I accept how you feel, and I hope someday you may feel that about me.”

When you have these conversations, consistency is key. Over time, being consistent shows your spouse that you have made lasting changes; you are a safe place.

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13 thoughts on “Best Way To Respond While Trying To Save My Marriage?

    1. Is this advice for a good man that has been cheated on my his wife – and wants tonaave his marriage and family if she’s drifting away to ap

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  1. Once cheating happens, it’s over. And run away. Self respect is the most important thing. Being with someone and cannot look at yourself in the mirror, not worth it.

    Be a alpha not a beta male, no matter how much it hurts. She put her needs before your, you need to do the same.

    Even if your lonely. Trust me, if a woman walks into your today and there is a connection, you ll forget about your cheating wife. When it’s over it’s over.

    God bless you. Prayer sent!

    1. My wife cheated on me and I’m hurt and don’t want to lose our family and marriage I’m trying to look past th affair but she seems to want to leave for affair partner –

    2. Herakles let her go. All these videos are great but the first and foremost thing you have to remember is that you cannot make someone stay with you, when they don’t.

      The legal system against men when it comes to family law is the worst.

      F her and move on. She left you for another man. It’s not an affair, she trashed you and moved on with her new man.

      Trust me, when you get a new woman, you ll forget her. But be alone and do you.

  2. My husband left 8 months ago. He won’t see me or talk to me. I think he’s doing this because he won’t be able to stand firm in his resignation to be done. How can I be his safe place when he won’t see me or talk to me?

  3. My situation is tricky, i was the cheater now she is paying me back, not only that but she is not willing to give up the affair partner although i have changed, its killing me i never see anything on this topic !!!

    1. K Sollo I understand how you feel I’m at that point myself but not giving up through Christ all things are possible keep the faith.

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