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  1. Wait a minute, did I just miss something? She’s made a CONSCIOUS DECISION to not have sex til the kids are gone (which will probably be about 18 years away). But the man is getting blamed ???!!! This woman stated that her reason is because “mothers aren’t suppose to be sexy”. WHY IS THE HUSBAND GETTING BLAMED! !!??? Bottom line is, she has issues that don’t appear to be the fault of the husband. And if she or any other wife/woman thinks that a man, any man, will stay faithful for possibly 18 yrs in a sexless marriage or relationship than she has an even greater ISSUE. Sex isn’t everything in a marriage or relationship but it is a important part of maintaining it. SHE NEEDS COUNSELING IMMEDIATELY OR PREPARE TO ACCEPT WHEN HER HUSBAND TURNS TO PORN OR ANOTHER WOMAN. IT’S ONLY A MATTER OF TIME !!!

    1. Excellent Video clip! Forgive me for butting in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard the talk about – Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome exclusive guide for Saving Your Marriage without the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my cooworker got astronomical success with it.

    2. Dr. Phil is right about that for sure, a sexless marriage can only last so long, eventually the breakup and divorce will come

    1. +Pepita Snow APPsolutely, Oprah! (to this day, the word “absolutely” is still grossly overused on his show, imo)

  2. this 100% her fault she dont think a mom should have sex till after they should raise the kids why did you marry the guy and not intimate with him till the kids are gone what if she tells him after the kids are gone to get lost or want more kids and does the same thing

    1. It seems that way but its actually because his hair had color back then. It gives a better indication of where the hair ends and the scalp begins.

    1. Spoder Man ha I heard it but didn’t pay attention that he said. Right after he said that I saw this Comment. Lmoa

  3. Honestly, no man should be in a sexless marriage, regardless of the reason. The only solution is divorce. If the woman knew that she was frigid then she should have communicated that to the man beforehand.

    1. Then your situation is not like the majority of cases. Go ahead and tell yourself I’m “pretending” if that makes you feel better.

    2. this fool comes to youtube looking for answers, then tries to insult someone who cares enough to try and give him one…comical

    3. Hold This L. Debarge the guy who gave him the answer has been trolling everyone’s comments ?
      He’s not genuine

    1. you think GOD would want someone to commit their life to something & get nothing in return? oh yeah, its GOD!! people do that for him all day evrryday

    1. Thanks for the Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried – Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now)? It is a great one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my cooworker got amazing success with it.

  4. Many women are simply _NOT_ sexually attracted to their boyfriends and husbands. That’s a major factor behind so many ills in the dating/mating game — sexless relationships, high divorce rates, demanding behavior, mind games, resentment, cheating, etc. Many women are simply settling and trying to rationalize it away as “mature love”. THAT’s why we see so much neurotic and demanding female behavior in the dating game! Despite the sexual freedom women have nowadays, society still pressures them into settling if they want anything long-term, because the men they _sexually desire_ won’t commit. This causes a lot of emotional and psychological damage for both parties involved. Men grow up hearing the myth “women are less visual”, and women grow up being emotionally bullied into acting accordingly. Anyone woman or man who dares challenge this cultural deception is shamed into oblivion.

    1. Just about every married man is his wife’s last choice … the one she settled for because she realized she couldn’t have the Clark Gable of her girlish dreams.

    2. Interesting reading ur comments.. I am in my mid life now and have never even been engaged.. I feel like I’m missing out…maybe I’m not..I don’t know..

  5. I feel like she was sexually abused or something. Not by her husband, but maybe at the age her kids are at this present time (2 or 3.) That would make sense as to why she was sexually active with him before she had the kids and refuses to be now. She’s been able to bury it because she hasn’t been around kids, but being with them now it takes her back and she’s trying to feverishly protect them. Either way if it continued as it was that marriage I’m sure no longer exists.

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