Our live caller explains, “My wife wants to leave and doesn’t love me anymore. Our jobs have brought a lot of stress. She doesn’t want to work on the marriage, but I do. How can I convince her that our marriage is worth saving?”
In situations like this, the first thing we ask people to evaluate is: is there anything that could be “pushing” my spouse away? (Does your spouse feel controlled or ignored by you; MAJOR pushes.)
Second, we ask people to evaluate: is there something drawing my spouse away; pulling them away from me? (For example, another person, another lifestyle, etc.)
Third, we believe there is HOPE. If your spouse isn’t interested, it does NOT mean your marriage is doomed- it is NOT hopeless. We work with couples each day where one spouse is done/not in love anymore and still we have seen an amazing amount of marriages saved! The important thing is to focus on becoming the best you that you can be.
Here’s a quick summary: Acknowledge your “pushes,” do things that can draw your spouse back (becoming a better you physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually) and become a safe place.
If you are a first responder or in the military, or if your spouse is in a similar situation we would be honored to help.
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