How Donald Trump Can Save Your Marriage

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— How Donald Trump Can Save Your Marriage

This is going to be a the most TREMENDOUS video you’ve ever seen in your life! The complete opposite of a TOTAL DISASTER, folks! Donald Trump certainly isn’t short on superlatives and exaggerations… and regardless of what you think of him, you have to give him credit…the guy is a TOTAL sound bite machine. It seems like almost everything he says is worthy of attention… whether good or bad.

And there’s another thing about him that’s indisputable: Donald Trump angers the HELL out of a lot of people… and there’s a good reason why beyond simple politics and disagreements over policy. It’s the way he uses his language. And today, in this YouTube video, I’m going to explain how you can use this information to help you with YOUR marriage and relationships.

How’s it going, YouTubers? Brad Browning here with a marriage saving video today! Before I get into the meat and potatoes, I first have to tell you about this amazing quiz tool that I’ve created on MarriageGuy.com/quiz… and it’s a quiz tool designed to determine your chances of salvaging your marriage. The quiz only takes around 5 minutes to complete…and it’s completely free. Again, the address for that quiz is MarriageGuy.com/quiz! So head on over there after you watch this YouTube video and get on that!

Okay… so now let’s get into the goods.

So like I said, some valuable lessons can be learned from Donald Trump on what NOT to do when speaking to your spouse. See, when emotions are running high, sometimes we shift the way we use our language… and often in a very BAD way. We say things like…

“You never clean after yourself!” or “You always are late to my sister’s dinner!” or “You’re the absolute worst when it comes to remembering my birthday!”

Recognize statements like these? This is what I like to call “Imprecise Language”… and it’s Donald Trump’s specialty! Trump clearly uses this kind of exaggerated and ‘over the top’ language to gain publicity and provoke a strong reaction. Regardless of what you think about the commander and chief, this sort of language is extremely divisive. And if you notice from the examples above, this kind of “Imprecise Language” often comes out when we are angry at our spouses… once emotions rise, we start using superlatives and we exaggerate reality… and this is reflected in what we say to our spouse.

Now think about it from your spouse’s perspective, for a minute… let’s say for example that you accused your spouse of “never cleaning after themselves.” Yes, often times, you might be right. Maybe he or she IS really bad at cleaning after themselves… but to say he or she never cleans after themselves is most likely an inaccurate statement. All your spouse would have to do is come up with one example of him or her cleaning up after themselves to prove you wrong. From your spouse’s perspective, what you said is blatantly hyperbolic and clearly not a true reflection of reality… and as a result, your spouse will think that you’re being untruthful and condescending.

So how do we solve this issue? How do we make it so that you can express your grievances to your spouse without angering him or her? How can we cut down on our “Imprecise Language” and make sure that we DON’T escalate our confrontations into earth shattering arguments?

Well, you need to start using “PRECISE Language.” That’s right – little shifts in what you say can have a massive impact on how your spouse perceives you and I’ll explain how right now…

Let’s use the above three examples to say how we can turn IMPRECISE language into PRECISE language… that is, language that is IMPOSSIBLE to misinterpret.

In the first example… which was, “You NEVER clean after yourself!” – you know, we could change that to something like… “Could you do me a favour and make sure you pick up your socks after showering? That would be awesome.”

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    1. Awww that’s heart-warming. Thanks for the support, Ruby! If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won’t miss any of my upcoming videos. I’d really appreciate it! 🙂

  1. I m on no contact with my bf since 7th Jan.. after 3 wks he msgd me as he got a news dat m leaving country forever… so he had many questions.. I cleared dat doubt n ended da conversation.. bt after dat no msg again from him.. what to do next

    1. Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there’s no one-action solution for everything. Okay? The “no contact” phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I’m glad you’ve completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I’m trying to say here is it’s a 3-phase process, and it’s a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeGNPBdpnsI or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!

  2. Thanks brad, I’m in no conduct period with my boyfriend and he actually texts me daily yet I don’t reply. plz tell me au I’m i going to begin when the period is over?

    1. Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day “no contact” rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it’s shown in their actions). There are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeGNPBdpnsI

    1. The short answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn’t seem to be regretting their actions. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you’re on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m27TLeyUmwg&t=9s There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it’s personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there’s been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Take care!

  3. Hey Brad, I’ve downloaded your mend the marriage program and it’s great. But without backing right off, any tips so I don’t seem so needy without having to worry about her moving on? Please keep making more marriage videos because you already have tons of ex-factor videos!

  4. My ex has recently came into conctact saying I’ve got better looking and she’s started to like and comment on my pics? Thoughts?

    1. The fact that she’s reaching out to you is a good sign Jamie. You should ask her to meet you. But don’t act desperate about it. Be as casual as you can.

  5. Hey Brad- I’ve got a situation for you and I could use some advice. I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years back in October and went straight into no contact for a month. Rumors spread that she had cheated on me and pictures of her and some guy we both work with popped up on instagram. I brought these allegations up with her and she told me she didn’t cheat, but that she did go on a trip with this guy after we broke up. I had argued with her because I thought she had cheated and ultimately realized I wanted her back. Since then I wrote a handwritten letter of self realization. I had spoken with her on January 8th on the phone and had tried to show her I changed but she rejected me. She fears our relationship would just end the same way. She told me she was trying to move on and that I should too, though her voice had no conviction that she really wanted this. We hadn’t spoken until the 18th when I just got accepted into dental school and she sent me a text congratulating me. I told her thanks and ending the conversation short saying I had to go to dinner to celebrate. I was wondering if it would be appopriate to send a clean slate text and return to no contact to make amends for the damage I did after we broke up?

    1. So which is which? Has she cheated or not? Don’t wrongfully accuse her if you haven’t gotten your facts straight yet. It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til’ the end so you don’t end up missing the important points: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeGNPBdpnsI and the top 5 questions here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJGHEtlV1ac

  6. Hi brad,
    I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years, but I did something very very wrong and I have the courage and guilty enough to tell you what I did, I cheated on him and I know it’s wrong and maybe it’s impossible him to forgive me but I swear to you this is not me I’m not a cheater person and he knows that, when he know that I cheated on him he get very angry and hated me and blocked me everywhere but I apologys to him and swear from my heart not ever do it again and he accepted my apology and we back together, but he starts to doubts me and asking alots of questions with who I’m hanging and who I’m texting on whatsapp and brad I know that he had a good reason to do this but I’m a human and need to feel that the other person trust me back, so we had ups and downs and lots of fights that makes us both agree to breakup, but after a week I felt so guilty and sad and I regret our decision and decided to get him back but he refused and said this was relieved decision and he don’t want me, back but he said that he still loves me because his heart wants to stay together and his mind says no it’s not gonna work and he cannot handle my ups and downs so he decided that our relationship wasn’t healthy for two of us, so I travelled to him after 21 day and surprised him at his work office and he shocked!! then we hangout together as a couple! he was holding my hand and kiss me, but when I ask him if he wants us back together he said no I just want us to have this final happy day together, this was the first time I see him by the way, he is living in dubai and I’m living in egypt, brad please I’m desperate to get him back I’m so in love with him and I know he is too! it’s just he can’t forgive me, he said if we were in same country maybe we get a chance but now he wants us to be friends and I refused this and started no contact rule yesterday after 2 months of him breaking up with me..
    what I’m asking you is if he can forgive me if he can get back to me or I’m just bad person for him? and how to prove him wrong and I’m really truly loyalty to him?
    believe me brad I regrat what I did so much and the pain is so much to handle with and makes me take a bad decisions so please give me hope and advice to get the love of my life back.
    I took your quiz by the way and my result was 69% and this gives me hope but you said I have to work fast to get him back, so here I am asking you what to do.

    thanks.

    1. He’s likely very hurt and tending to his emotional wounds, so try to give him the space he needs and you employ the techniques here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYXBzltbx1E This is something that cannot be rushed, so your patience is very much needed, all right? You’re also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you’re unsure how to go about this or you’re planning to do something but not sure if it’s a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

  7. Hey, i just wanna ask a qu abt my recent break up. She suggested to friends and i said it s Ok. Then i began my NC for almost 1 week now. Should i make it clear to her that we should not be friends?? Or is there any way to fix it??

    1. It’s a terrible idea to be friends with her. The boundaries won’t be clear and you’re technically both free to date other people. Wouldn’t it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you’re only “friends” now, don’t you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yd6pvNVeHjI and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sS4V4IOcOgs but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you’ll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!

    1. You filled out the coaching form, and as long as you’ve sent it successfully, I should be able to see your email. 🙂 Talk soon!

  8. Hey Brad.. I sent my Ex the “I´ve moved on” text and it pretty much backfired, she asked me why I write something like that out of the blue and after that she told me she was happy that I started establishing contact again but that it was very weird because I was acting like the breakup never happened (because of things like “hey i started taking piano lessons could you give me some tips?”) now she doesn´t want to write anymore she said “if you want we can meet and talk face to face” because she thinks its weird how we are talking over texts. I know it´s not good to talk about the break up but I think she might want just this to have a conversation where we can talk about everything that is on our minds… she also said she doesn´t think it is a good idea for us to communicate again or if we can ever be friends. Now I know I also don´t want to be just her “friends” but she will probably always be like: “why does he text me what does he want now?” so how can I rekindle with her without being just a friend to eventually reattract her? and how do I manage not to talk about the breakup in afew days if that is what she wants to talk about? I am really stuck here.. pls help me out

    1. So she’s not the texting type? Assuming you’ve already completed the 30-day “no contact” rule, then go ahead and meet her, but make sure you really take your time and know what you’re doing, man. These may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbEoz81in-Q&t=11s AND https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9XcUEIGK38&t=117s
      You’re also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you’re unsure how to go about this or you’re planning to do something but not sure if it’s a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at http://www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

      Good luck!

  9. Hi brad. I have a bit of a different problem. I have always been great friends with my girlfriends parents but one day something happened and we ended up fighting. Ever since they have been trying to convince my girlfriend to leave me even thoug I apologized to them. And It happened. My girlfriend left me 2-3 weeks ago and I am sure that her parents was a big part of her decision. What Can I do?

    1. Assuming you haven’t done anything to really piss them off, then it doesn’t matter all that much, not in the grand scheme of things at least. If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it’s best to consider moving on from this, okay? Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

  10. Hi, Brad. Getting a lot help from your videos. how long should i wait till i contact my ex who i dated for a bit longer than two months?

    Although it was a short time, We were getting along very well. Im very assured that she and I had a strong connection, we did not have any arguement since we were very alike.

    The relationship ended because I gave her a traumatic physical experience after i got hammered while drinking with her. I think she knows that I am not that kind of a person who would do such a thing but she was too traumatized to meet me any longer.

    I know what I have done wrong and i know for sure that it was a one time thing that happened after irresponsible drinking.(i dont drink usually) How long should I wait till I contact her? Is it around 30 days like you said?

  11. I have to important questions and can’t find answer!

    I tried to add my ex girlfriend best friend on fb but she rejected me and told me that this thing not nice and she will tell my ex ( i just wanted to add her as a friend, not to flirt with her!), I feel like I ruined my chance! Any suggestions?

    the second question, Valentine day is near and I have been on no-contact period for 30 days by now. now I’m thinking about contacting my Ex gf that she dumped me 30 days ago . is it wise to contact her now or waiting more? I were so emotional when we broke up.

    1. It’s a bad idea to settle to being “just friends” with her right away in the hopes of getting her back one day. It’s a very common mistake and of the things I’ve discussed here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5tNRL7dWCTA As to your second question, since you’ve already completed the full 30-day “no contact” rule, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uN_XAgHjaFM DON’T mention anything about Valentine’s day or even trying to greet her, those are bad moves as well. Anyway the second phase means this means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It’s too complicated to explain everything on here, but here’s an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeGNPBdpnsI Good luck!
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  12. Hey Brad, i experienced a breakup a week ago and now im trying the no contact strategy and trying to recover but its too hard because literally everything reminds me of her because we talked all the time… Also trying ti keep myself busy but still cant get my mind of her. Please any tips? P.S. i do want her back

    1. Depends on who the girl is. Is this someone you’re trying to date or is she an ex? If she’s a girl you’re trying to get with, check out Amy North’s and Kate Spring’s channel. They have an entirety of videos focused on dating. If she’s an ex of yours, however, then I say you should be less obvious about your feelings for her. Go by the golden rules here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kJ1ybuFIHE

  13. Brad, I need some help. I’m asking a girl out on Saturday, but another girl I like just asked me out. What do I do?

  14. Hey Brad Browning I really like your videos
    I just wanted to know why my ex boyfriend change his facebook password and is that the bad thing or something is wrong? I really want an advice from you about this
    Thank you

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