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Hey, Brad here with another marriage saving video! For those of you who don’t know me, I’m a marriage expert based out of Vancouver, BC… and I’m the author of the best-selling Mend The Marriage program – an online course designed to help save you and your spouse’s marriage as quickly as possible.
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The first love language is the act of giving or receiving gifts. Often times words don’t do enough to express the kind of love that you want to give your spouse… sometimes, instead, a heartfelt or meaningful gift could do the trick. People who prefer this love language expect to be given gifts on special occasions … and they often love giving gifts as well.
The second love language is quality time – and this one is pretty self-explanatory. People who have a proclivity for this love language prefer spending time with his or her spouse. This could take the form of dates, hikes, adventures, or a good conversation.
The third love language is actually my preferred love language… and that’s ‘words of affirmation’. People who prefer this mode of expressing and receiving love like to compliment their spouse whenever they feel the need to. I, for one, love the feeling I get when I compliment my amazing wife… and in return, she expresses her love with this next love language…which is…
Love language 4… acts of service. Some spouses expect gifts and quality time, but others expect help with the house chores, help with driving the kids to school, and help with making home cooked meals. People who prefer this love language love doing these favours for his or her spouse and expect the same in return!
So in order to ameliorate this issue, you need to fully understand, first and foremost, what YOUR preferred love language is… and of course, you need to figure out what your spouse’s preferred love language is. Now some of you may instinctively know what kind of love language you prefer based on experience, but sometimes it can be helpful to take Chapman’s helpful quiz to figure it out… and of course, you should encourage your spouse to do the same.
You can click the description below to take this quiz… it’s a super short one and it only takes a couple minutes to complete.
Once you complete that quiz, you’ll be given a score determining your preferred language of love. And from here, you and your spouse can communicate to each other what he or she prefers and act accordingly. For those of you who already know your preferred language of love, please do me a favour and VOTE for your language by clicking here (point!)… if you’re on the YouTube app on your phone or if you’re on a laptop computer, you’ll see a little exclamation mark on the top right here… just click it and vote for YOUR preferred love language.
Now… although Chapman’s 5 love languages may sound like pseudoscience, one study conducted in 2006 stated that this concept may have some degree of psychometric validity – but regardless of the studies, thousands of people have attributed the success of their marriage to this concept! Not only that, but I’ve read his book and have applied these ideas to my best-selling program, Mend The Marriage… you can grab a copy right now, risk-free, at MarriageGuy.com/Buy. I also recommend Chapman’s book, the 5 love languages, it’s also a great read.
Now that’s not the only way I can help you apply these 5 languages of love… you can also hire ME as your marriage coach as well. Some marriage counselors out there charge hundreds of dollars per hour… and not only that, you have to get your partner to agree to attend counselling as well. But with my coaching program, it works a little differently…
All you have to go is go to MarriageGuy.com/coaching to learn more about it. On that page, you can sign up for my 1 on 1, confidential email coaching program. Once you sign up, just send me an email outlining your marital situations and I guarantee a response within 48-72 hours. That means you can email me whenever you want (as long as you’re subscribed)…AND best of all, you don’t need your spouse’s approval to get help today! You can start saving your marriage NOW even if your partner won’t even talk to you. So again, to check out that coaching program, just head on over to MarriageGuy.com/coaching.
Alright, that’s all for now, folks! Thanks for watching and hopefully you can use Chapman’s 5 love languages to save your marriage today.