How To Save Marriage After An Affair

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Dr. Beam tells you how to save your marriage after an affair. What to do if you just confessed an affair. How to confess an affair but keep your marriage. Dr. Joe Beam discusses what to do before or after confessing an affair to your spouse.

Betrayed people want you (the betrayer) to know how much you've hurt them. They have trouble believing that you could grasp that, since you can't fully understand- you're not in their shoes. Show them that you know you hurt them by apologizing and not trying to justify your previous actions. The betrayed doesn't want to hear any excuses. Also, when the betrayed spouse asks questions, do not give them any descriptions, because then they will start conjuring mental images, which only makes things worse. They only need to see that you know you hurt them and how much you regret it.

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16 thoughts on “How To Save Marriage After An Affair

  1. Seriously – let’s just see if the one that betrayed can handle the betrayal – so tired of ppl defending the one that cheated

    1. Winner of a video, I’ve been looking for “healing from an affair as the other woman” for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across – Qenamilla Strayer Magnet – (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my buddy got amazing success with it.

    2. Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about “healing yourself after infidelity” for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried – Qenamilla Strayer Magnet – (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate got great success with it.

    3. @Lake Lady77 Many thanks, been searching for “healing from infidelity and depression” for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of – Qenamilla Strayer Magnet – (just google it ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my co-worker got great results with it.

    4. This was great, thanks, I been tryin to find out about “trust issues relationship after infidelity” for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried – Qenamilla Strayer Magnet – (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my friend got great results with it.

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  2. We have free will and freedom of speech. Our choices are ours to make but the reactions and actions of others are a consequence we have to face when we sin intentionally. Unintentional sin is like putting your dog first because it is sick when you should be putting your spouse first. I know, I know, it happens so very much that more keep it a secret than don’t and even lie at the expense of the other spouses health (mental, physical, emotional). I HATE INFIDELITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. My wife cheated on me and we seperated for 3 months, i moved out. She had the other guy move in for that time. She broke it off with him and we are back together now. We have been back together for 2 1/2 months but she keeps comparing me to him. I am trying to find forgiveness, but i can let go of my resentment. She is starting to become distant again and im afraid im losing her again. Its killing me i nedd help.

  4. here’s several suggestions for saving your partnership
    Try to discuss more
    Help each other out more
    Start to give and take more
    (I learned these and why they work on Mirykal marriage plan website )

  5. There are many components to improving your marriage. One resource I found that successfully combines these is the Pavs partner pundit (check it out on google) definately the most helpful guide that I have ever seen. Check out all the interesting information .

  6. Cheers for this, I’ve been looking for “how to fix things after cheating” for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of – Qenamilla Strayer Magnet – (search on google ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend got cool results with it.

  7. Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about “how to move on after adultery” for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of – Qenamilla Strayer Magnet – (search on google ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my co-worker got excellent success with it.

  8. I feel so lost. I had a one night stand… tried to hide it, but the other women has never stop extorting me for money. The cheating happened once. I want to tell my wife but I’m so afraid. I don’t want to lose her, our two beautiful children. How do I continue? The one night stand is demanding money.

  9. In that situation if the betrayed asked detailed questions and she said she wouldn’t answer the question it comes across like only partial disclosure and more secrets…can never fully trust after that and trickling the info after pressure is just as bad. I realize the gory details could be too much and end the marriage but if it doesn’t a recovery can be built on a foundation of truth. If it does end it then that is what happens. Not every relationship can be saved.

    Further, my spouse can check my phone, GPS, etc.. whenever she wants. Why would I care? I’ve got nothing to hide. She has never checked but I’ve never given her a reason to. I realize no one wants to be treated like a child and if there wasn’t a history here I get it….but if there was infidelity I can totally get why they would want open access at all times and if you are not doing anything shady why would you care? I’d consider it part of the price of your actions and wanting to remain in the relationship.

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