Our Separation Saved Our Marriage

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We have been married since 2009 and we spent a season separated in order to save our marriage. In this video we share how our separation saved our marriage.

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45 thoughts on “Our Separation Saved Our Marriage

  1. Extremely relatable and eye opening. I love you guys. Thank you for being so open. The first step is being honest with yourselves and I believe a lot of people struggle with that. I know there’s a lot of work to be done for us but we need to start somewhere realistic together at a conscious level.

  2. The vulnerability you guys expressed about your separation, started something new in my soul and for that I thank you! I can honestly say that point in your life started a new point in mine!

  3. I am going through a separation right now since my wife had weight loss surgery it seems she has being suffering a silent nervous breakdown we had an argument one night and she told me she needed a few months it has broken my heart but it wasn’t until recently that I discovered how fragile she is and that she feels she needs to be alone to get better and get counseling . Please guys pray for us as I love this woman she is my life

    1. LpsSparkle Productions to all the comments above thank you for your prayers. Love and advice . In December we got back together it was painful but was so well worth it the love between us is so real and special ! So good my wife is now 6 months pregnant with a baby boy if you had told me a year ago that this would happen I would never have believed it as I thought my world was coming to an end . I prayed every minute and trusted Jesus I thank him everyday

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    3. Timothy Perry my husband and I are currently separated because he feel like he needs to get himself together..literally broke my heart..so I DEFINITELY get it..I hope you guys got back together!!!!

  4. Wow this was really helpful. Even if the obvious apparent outworkings arent there to the fullest like all out physical abuse, you can still have a negative impact on your children and its ok to step back and ask God to mold you individually and be stronger and more dependent on God later. This gives me hope for my marriage.

    1. My husband and I have been married 5 and a half years and 2018 has been THE hardest year of our marriage. We’ve had ups and lots of downs over the years but nothing like this. We are in the midst of a seperation and it’s a terrible feeling. I met him when I was 18 and we dated on and off for 7 years before we got married but I honestly believe we never truly knew who or what we wanted to be individually and now it’s all coming to a head. I’m still believing in God to turn this all around and reconcile this marriage so we don’t have to separate. But whatever God’s will is for our life I am okay with.

  5. This was an amazing video. My wife and I are in the very beginning phase of separation with no definitive plan to come back together right now (although I hope we can). I pray we can untangle the mess we have created for ourselves and our two kids.

    1. Going through that myself right now.She wants the divorce but I don’t but its my fault.Though its been 3 months and she still hasn’t served me yet.But I’m sure it will happen.We’ll see.

  6. Thank you so much for sharing! I needed this even as heartbroken as I feel right now. I feel a sense of hope. A part of my struggle is my husband is not religious and when ever I reccomend things that even mention God he gets upset with me. I don’t know how to help our marriage as that is a hard struggle I have. I struggle with religion also but I still believe in God. I also feel the closer I try to be to God the more it pushes my husband away. This is what I struggle with inside my head. I feel it’s a lose lose situation for me. Plus we have trust issues and insecurities. I would definitely like to talk more and receive some guidance from it yall.

  7. Thank you for sharing. I swear, I see a part of my husband in the husband here! Much like was mentioned in this video, he has even told me that he hoped he could be enough to fill me up and help me be happy. How tragic and sad that it took us physically separating (literally just yesterday), years of unmet expectations and deep-seeded hurts that will take years to come back from for me to see that only God can do that! I pray that my husband will walk closer to God in his time away and that we are able to come back together, if that is God’s will!

    1. My husband and I just separated.. my prayer is that he seeks God help and grows close to him.
      He is starting counseling soon.
      As I am too..
      I am praying for God’s will as well.

  8. At least your husband wanted to deal with his brokenness. My husband won’t go there and just keeps walls up.

    1. I JUST WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU ALL HOW I GOT FREED FROM MY ENEMY WHO WANTED TO FRUSTRATE ME, MY LIFE WAS FULL OF CHALLENGES, BUSINESS RUINED MARRIAGE BROKEN AND I WAS HATED BY MANY FOR NO JUST REASON , I ALMOST COMMITTED SUICIDE BECAUSE I COULDN’T TAKE IT BUT I THANK god TODAY THAT I HAVE FIND A SOLUTION TO ALL MY PROBLEMS AND MY LIFE HAS BEEN RE-BRANDED BY DR NOBLE. FEW WEEKS AGO I CONTACTED DR NOBLE AND EXPLAIN MY SITUATION TO HIM AND HE TOLD ME I WAS UNDER ATTACK BY MY ELDER BROTHER WHO IS JEALOUS THAT I AM MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN HIM AND SO HE IS DOING EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO DESTROY ME, DR NOBLE HELPED ME TO REMOVE ALL THE EVIL MY BROTHER CAST ON ME AND RETURNED THEM BACK TO HIM AND NOW THE CASE HAVE TURN AROUND. THANKS DR NOBLE FOR COMING TO MY RESCUE. CONTACT DR NOBLE TO HELP YOU FIX ANY CHALLENGES IN YOU LIFE OR MARRIAGE via WHATSAPP +2349059610643 EMAIL NOBLESPELLHOME@ GMAIL. COM

  9. Going through a separation now. It’s tough I’m trying to give her her space and trying to work on me but it’s very difficult. She’s so closed off barely responds to me. We’ve been together for 15 years.

    1. Same story here.. but remember that God’s plan is usually perfect.. if God has done great things for you in the past he will do it again.

  10. Ina m only a child but my mommy has been gone for almost 6 years my daddy is staying very strong in faith though please pray for our family

  11. My wife and I are struggling with this right now. I’m not sure about the intimidation side but I know my temper has drove a wedge the I’m desperately trying to pull out by fixing my anger issues. It’s not like I’m physically abusing her but I know emotionally I have done some damage by not being as loving and as caring while at the same time keeping a short fuse.

  12. I’m going through separation right now and it’s been almost a month. I left my wife for a lot of reasons and I believe that separation will possibly help our marriage. I just hope she doesn’t find someone else otherwise I feel that this 5 years was just a waste. I still help her with rent and couple bills here and there so she can get back on her feet. I didn’t want to leave her high and dry. I just hope we can get back together and love eachother like we used to. I never cheated on her or did anything bad. And it sucks hard when family gets involved convincing her to leave me. I never thought I’ll go on YouTube looking up separation for marriages because I’m hurting inside real bad and need some help. But hearing other people experience makes me feel lil better and knowing I’m not alone.

    1. You’re not alone. My wife is leaving soon. Hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. Hopefully God can restore all of our marriages in jesus name. Love you

    2. Winner of a video, I have been researching “can i get my wife back after divorce” for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried – Jenaniel Forgiveness Blueprint – (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate got great success with it.

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  13. Thank you for sharing your testimony. I’m currently separated from my wife and we’re both going to counseling to address root issues as well. Post trauma for me and personal issues for my wife. This testimony reminds me that it’s so easy to forget all that The Lord wants for us and especially in our marriages, it just takes hard work so that the relationship will be stronger than ever. She’s currently lost her romantic feelings for me and is no longer in love. I’m doing everything in my ability and God’s Spirit to mend my ways, repent where needed, and pray I can make her fall for me all over again. I know our problems are insignificant compared to whatever other marriages go through, but I just hope my wife realizes it, acknowledges it, and chooses to rebuild our relationship.

  14. Thank you so much for this video and yalls testimony! I’m currently on day 3 in a separation from my wife. We’ve been married 8yrs going on 9yrs come February 2020.
    It’s ruff right now because I just want to be home with my wife and 2 sons. (8yrs & 3yrs)
    I’m living with my mom 35 mins away.
    I have a problem with my anger as well and I have a major problem with lying, about anything….like finances. I spend what extra money we have on material things…I lost my wife’s trust.
    I have hope and I am seeking GOD.
    I fear she isn’t doing the same. We came to the agreement that we need to separate until she feels like I’ve truly changed. It’s hard to stay focused on working on myself when I miss them like crazy. 😔
    Prayers for my situation are more than welcomed. 🙏🏽

  15. Thank you for this. My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for five and are currently separated, but it’s okay. Its given me so much time to go to couseling and just spend time with the Lord. He has opened my eyes so much and I believe this will make me a better wife and him a better husband in the end. Thank you Jesus. Keep the faith, always

  16. Very interesting but I wish the wife would allow the husband to express himself and finish his sentences without interrupting.

    1. Yes indeed. I noticed it. Unfortunately it was painfully distracting. Without realising it’s undermining.

      Thanking God for His restoring work in them both and in their marriage. Let’s trust and believe they continue to allow God to change them and redress the balance, in Jesus Name 🙏

  17. Wow I am so impressed my husband and I divorced last year after 25 years. You were so much like my husband is. He is very emotional,needy,angry and explosive. I was like your wife. Our daughter was 19 when he left he said I didn’t love him and I would never change. Our daughter said “Mom get a divorce sell the house and move to Kansas City dad is never gonna change he is a narcissist” She is a missionary in the inner city and a house Mom for 23 drug addicts an alcoholic women. God has taken her and me on amazing journey. She is healed and now engaged to a wonderful man who every so often has to remind her “I am not your dad” it is awesome to see them put each other 1 st and have hard conversations and LISTEN to each other. Jim and I went to 6 /4 different people counseling sessions where he pounded the table and was moving back in and watch every move I make and not let me get away with anything. Everything was my fault which I had faults and was working on them. He wanted a list of 25 sacrifices I had made for him. He would take me back but I would just screw up again and again and we would end up the same way because I was kinda like the church and he was kinda like god. Well we wouldn’t be in the situation if that was true. But any way He believes there is no help and no hope for him he has been this way his whole life. He is ODD / Oppositional Defiance Disorder and yet blames me for everything. He was severally abused by his Mom and filters all women through her. He forgave her and so none of that effects him. He will not seek help he doesn’t need it he is happiest by himself with no responsibilities. He is a victim who was always helping everybody and not taking care of his own home. It’s really Sad I have had a lot of healing but don’t want to ever be in a relationship again. Jim was my knight in shining armor and I was a damsel in distress and it worked until I got delivered from that and everything changed. He couldn’t do partner. I still pray for him and he still comes and goes because we both own our house until I decide to sell. He doesn’t do any repair or pay anything. It is my full responsibility but he has his mail coming here and still has a lot of stuff. That needs to change and is. I’m setting my boundaries and he isn’t liking it much. Your video was great I’m so excited to see a couple change change when they both work on their own issues and then work together Blessing to your family Linda

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