Save Marriage – My husband watched the video but he's still checked out and not willing to work at marriage at all. However, he's still living in the home and I am trying to remain neutral and loving so that he can observe my actions. I am trying to do what is best for our children and simply love, remain non-confrontational and calm in the face of built up misdirected, underlying anger. How can I get him to want to work on the relationship? Any suggestions for what to do next? I want to save my marriage.