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IN THIS VIDEO: Signs to look for that indicate your spouse may be thinking about asking for a divorce.
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If you’re worried about the state of your marriage, then it will be worth your time to watch this video to the end to ensure that you know how to avoid this from happening to your relationship.
My name is Brad Browning, by the way… some people call me the Marriage Guy because of my Mend the Marriage program, which is a best-selling guide to preventing divorce and re-building a loving and lasting marriage. For more marriage-saving tips or to learn about my program, please visit my website at MarriageGuy.com.
Now, let’s dive straight into the first sign that may indicate your spouse is considering divorce… the first one is pretty obvious…
Sign #1 – Arguing Over Anything & Everything.
Yes, it’s no secret that an increase in the frequency and intensity of arguments with your partner are a clear indication that all is not well with your marriage. Now, don’t panic here just because you and your spouse are fighting a few times a week… every married couple will disagree and have conflicts from time to time, and it’s actually a healthy thing to argue now and then as long as they lead to resolutions or don’t leave lingering hard feelings.
When those arguments become daily occurrences, and tend to arise over almost anything, then that’s when things get a bit more dicey. For example, if you arriving 5 minutes late for a dinner date turns into a massive screaming match and results in both of you going to bed angry for the third time in a week, then that’s a problem. These kinds of arguments, if they happen frequently and tend to blow small grievances or disagreements way out of proportion, can indicate that your marriage is headed in the wrong direction.
Most of the time, couples who argue too often but have otherwise healthy marriages can repair this problem relatively easily. In simple terms, if you and your spouse fight too much or argue often over small issues, you need to learn how to prevent the useless arguments and have more important disagreements in a more civilized and constructive manner. I’ve got some tips on how to do that in the video on my website, MarriageGuy.com, so head over there after this video if you want to learn more about arguing more effectively.
Now, another and potentially more serious indication of an unhealthy marriage is when one or both of you stops trying to resolve conflict at all. Which leads me to the next point….
Sign #2 – No Longer Willing To Resolve Conflict or Find Solutions.
If your partner seems to no longer care about the outcome of a fight, or if they seem to feel as though trying to find a solution to your problems is pointless or hopeless, then that can be a clear indication of deeper troubles. When this kind of despair sets in, your partner may withdraw further and feel as though there will never be a way for the two of you to live together in peace. That’s obviously not a good thing, and it’s something that you need to work on if this has become a problem in your marriage.
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