Standing For Your Marriage Alone

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It IS possible to stand for your marriage alone.

Now, it might seem impossible, it might seem crazy, (and you might not know where to start)
but it can just take one spouse wanting to save the marriage to actually start saving the marriage.

But you can’t stay where you are- you need to stand. You need to be strong and grounded even when life doesn’t go your way; even if your spouse is cold or distant. You need to do something to create change- even just within yourself.

But what more can you do? Where do you start!?

Start by knowing you can’t “force” your spouse to change. Start by getting up and focusing on what you can do to move forward. Yes, your marriage is important- we believe this wholeheartedly and want to help you save your marriage- but it is not the only thing that brings value to your life. You are still a father, mother, son, daughter, friend, co-worker, boss. Don’t forget that there are people that need you.

When you’re only focused on what’s going wrong…when you’re anxious, when you’re depressed, you can lose sight of people around you and you can lose sight of what you can start doing.

The people we’ve worked with who have SAVED their marriage had one thing in common: one spouse wanted out of the marriage but the other spouse, wanting to save it:
-stuck with it long enough
-was willing to make changes,
– and made changes within themself

One spouse was willing to do these things and made it possible for the two of them to come back together.

Here’s what you can do starting today.

Get calm so you won’t react in a frazzled state and remove all of the negative influences in your life (people, social media.)

Get focused and recenter yourself. Do the right things to move forward. Work on yourself; work on your PIES [ Check out the PIES Video Here: ]

Stop doing things that “push” your spouse away and start using SMART contact to establish POSITIVE communication [Check out the SMART Contact Video Here: ]

Get ready for change to happen. Hopefully in your marriage, but definitely in yourself. Believe that it is possible & believe that it is worth it… that there’s hope, that there’s a future. And, make a way for change to happen. It will be painful- it may be the worst thing you’ve gone through, but use the situation to grow; to become a better person. Become someone who GROWS during hardship- a new, better person, and hopefully a better marriage.

Want to hear how one woman saved her marriage even after 4 years of her husband living thousands of miles away? Check out (10:26).

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33 thoughts on “Standing For Your Marriage Alone

    1. I stay out of marriage , so I don’t need to get out of it. Divorce just doesn’t sound that fun to me. People get divorced more often than they get married these days. I think it’s finally time to let go of the institution of marriage. Everybody knows that love is just a social construct to control women and oppress them.

    1. Same here bro.. ive been trying to save my marriage for more than 2 years now… And I will keep on trying until i succeed..

    2. There are three in a marriage, husband, wife, and God.
      A marriage is a covenant- to death.
      Being true is worth it.

    3. Great video content! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched – Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (should be on google have a look)? It is a smashing one of a kind guide for Saving Your Marriage minus the normal expense. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my cooworker got astronomical results with it.

  1. So much prayer. Main hurdle is when we take several steps forward and then he pulls back. Another setback is passage of time as it’s hard to stay hopeful the more time that passes and the more that we both get used to being apart. Thank you for this story of hope.

  2. There are multiple good suggestions in this video. It occurred to me that one thing that can change us most and that leads us to do the things she has mentioned here is charity– selfless love: “charity suffereth long, and is kind… seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil…hopeth all things, endureth all things”. I am still in the middle of my own crisis, but as she said, I know that at least I have changed. My love for God and others is increasing. I have realized that past mistakes and problems with handling things is that I have been focused on myself rather than them.

  3. My husband has been in another state living with this women for 4 months now and I am working on myself but when he does text or I text back about finances or the dog he is still short and cold. The girlfriend is still playing games on social media as well but I ignore it. I pray multiple times a day for him to come home

  4. This channel is my last and only hope , very inspiring! For those who are standing for your marriage, like me, you’re not standing alone, Christ is standing with you! This morning I cried to God that I’m done with this husband!! I’m tired to try… but when I watch this I have a little hope, the best Channel and professionals I’ve ever seen!!! hard to do it, so hard!’ God help us all!!!

    1. Don’t forget, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. You’re one of the lucky ones who is unhappily still married. Marriage is just a social construct made by the patriarchy to oppress women and make them unhappy. We need to abolish marriage once and for all!!!! Just get a divorce and be happy!!!!!

    2. I’m studying saving your partnership and discovered a fantastic resource at Pavs Partner Pundit (look it up on google)

  5. The biggest challenge is that it’s an emotional roller-coaster, no matter how hard we try to be strong etc.

    1. Yep ,,, going through that now. Been trying to keep busy. Working out, reading, watching videos.. I even deactivated my Facebook. Too much bs on there.

  6. I feel like Kimberly was talking directly to me in this video. This is so hard. But I’m going to be strong, calm, and gentle. I’m all I got right now, and if he comes back, I will be his safe place to land.

  7. Thank you so much Kimberley my wife and I have been married 8 years and she left me August last year. I’m a Christian and I’m believing God to help me. I’m not going to stop standing for my marriage.

  8. This is a very timely 😁video. I have been 🧍‍♂️standing for my interracial marriage for 27 years! My wife and I have worked together in business for 20 years in love, work and play. We have a “happy imperfect” ⚭marriage. And, I would do it all over again because of the valuable lessons I’ve 🤔learned. These lessons 🙏🏽challenge me to get over 😉myself everyday.

  9. I have had enough. I have tried. I did the PIES, etc. and my wife is just too selfish. I will stay together, now, while our children are minors, but that is just temporary.

  10. Im standind alone for marriage… my wife have separeted from me since 4/1/2020….. and i miss her so much… i cant even have fun. I try yesterday and just kept thinking on my wife… and then i have to go to an empty apartment.

  11. I felt like Kimberly was talking directly to me. Im working so hard to save my marriage, if he decides to come back this will be his safe place. Thanks so much for all your videos.

  12. Thank you. Great information. As a marriage and family therapist helping couples and individuals for the past 24 years, I can attest that these principles work. If you are struggling with your marriage, I would encourage you to apply these principles with a stern determination. Your marriage can be saved.

  13. I whole heartly believe my marriage will be saved. It’s just extremely difficult to not be impulsive. The waiting process is very lonely. Thank you sharing the advice. I was extremely lost but now at least I know where to start. Prayers for all whom are here. God and love conquer all.🙏🙏🙏💕

  14. I am so happy I found this channel. I am in that place -my identity seems to be wrapped up in my husband and I want to be a better version of myself for me, my kids and of course to save my marriage. ❤️ God bless you for doing these videos-that last story made me cry 😭 of course watching your videos makes me cry.

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