What to Do If Your Wife Wants a Divorce (And Save Your Marriage)

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— What to Do If Your Wife Wants a Divorce

You’re happily married and things are going great. Or so it seems. Then, unexpectedly, your wife hits you with some shocking news: She wants a divorce. The announcement hits you like a ton of bricks, and suddenly you feel like a helpless child. But before you throw in the towel or say something you’ll regret, let me share with you my four big tips for preventing divorce with your wife.

Hi guys, Brad Browning here and I want to thank you for joining me today. As a relationship coach and author of a program that teaches readers how to save their marriage, preventing divorce is a hot topic for me. So, let’s get started.

If your wife comes to you asking for a divorce, chances are she’s past the point of trying to work out your problems or asking for things to change. She’s feeling exhausted, and to her, your marriage is lost.

For you this news may comes as a shock. Sure you know there have been problems but you didn’t think things were that bad. Well, now is your time to take action. If you want to save your marriage and convince your wife not to leave you, then it’s time to step up to the plate and make some changes.

Before we get started I want to say that while it may seem impossible to save your marriage without the cooperation of your wife, I’ve helped many people in your situation. It’s true you can’t control your wife’s decisions, but I have seen amazing things happen when even just one person in the marriage begins making some positive changes.

So without further adieu, here are the four things you can do to prevent a divorce.

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51 thoughts on “What to Do If Your Wife Wants a Divorce (And Save Your Marriage)

  1. Hi brad. Need advice. My wife has had enough of me and our family. She left 2 day ago, and the problem is that I’m confused. I keep thinking about her and want her back and on the other hand it’s like I don’t want her. She left because she had enough and say’s she does not want to come back. I feel alone and I don’t know what to do. Need help.

    1. +charanjit1974 Hey, man, sorry to hear that but I say it’s about time you spend some time alone and really ask yourself some tough questions. Only you would know for sure how you feel for her, so try to take your time in really understanding yourself and therefore, your feelings for her. Don’t rush it as these things take time, so consider this as a blessing in disguise to figure yourself out first, okay? Learn to be alone in your own company first. That’s the first step towards appreciating other people when they are in your life. Anyway when did you start having doubts/feeling uncertain about her? How long have you been married? If you’re still unsure how to go about this and for me to know more about your situation as well at http://www.marriageguy.com/coaching Good luck, man!

  2. My wife is asking for seperation But Not Divorce. She says she needs space.im looking for a second job to move out But when I leave the house she always wants me to come home or help her with the kids.Is she confused does she know what she wants from me. Please help me

    1. +Mon The Artist Hey man, I think I’ve just answered your concern on the previous/the same video with you asking similar issues in that comment, so please refer to that. 🙂

    2. +Brad Browning​​ hey thanks your advice really works Slowly shes really starting to come around.can u give me more advice to win her back

  3. Bred please help. My wife left me 10 days ago and said she is going to get the divorce papers. I try to agree with her and told her she was right and the are marriage is hopeless and it didn’t work and she said she is going to bring the papers next week. can i do anything i do love this women a lot. i know deep down in her she loves me too.

    1. Hang in there man. My Wife kicked me out and actually got the papers. I hope she doesn’t go through and file them and reconsiders her decision. We have two amazing boys together. I hope while I’m out of the house she changes her mind. Just be hopeful.

    2. +nim nim parvin same here she left out of town for a family emergency. She will watch the kids when she gets back. I’m praying for you brother.

    3. +MUSTANGSVT99 man I guess we are both screwed. Well I do love her a lot and I won’t give up even after divorce. I just hope she doesn’t get a boyfriend because that would hurt me even more.

    4. +nim nim parvin same her man but she hasn’t yet neither has my wife. It’s taking this long for a reason. She’s really considering everything. If she was completely sure she would’ve done it already. It isn’t over until it’s over.

  4. Sometimes its the best thing that can happen to a marriage.
    If its broken the effort to patch things back together will yield minimal results.

    1. +Brad Browning A marriage has 4 components
      1 biological ( children/procreation
      2 sexual
      3 emotional
      4 social
      The importance of the factors to both and the level at which is achieved is what ruins this particular social contract.
      The enormous effort to salvage something so broken is seldom work it .It tends to effect the ability to contribute to the 4 needs

    2. +Brad Browning You know the honeymoon period with all the courting and the tap with oxytocin flowing free.
      Then combine the fact that both individuals change over time some more rapidly than other
      Then add the original reason for the marriage like pregnancy

    3. Brad Browning so my wife has moved out and has not contacted me once and has ignored every phone call and text, should the no contact rule be used?

  5. I just wanted to say thanks for all your free videos on here. People scoff at this stuff but you have got me through a very rough week. I started dating my wife in 2007 and we got married on 2010. We own a house together and she has a 13 year old son and we have a 4 year old daughter. We are both turning 40 this year. I got the talk on Sunday that she is not in love with me anymore and doesn’t want to be together anymore. She wants her “space”. We have had issues over the last year but she’s been so busy with work and finishing her master’s degree she’s had no time for me or the kids. I’ve been the single father for many years in the relationship because of her school and I think it changed her into someone else. I’ve been ok with that because I thought we were building something together. So this is a very shock to my system. From watching your videos I’ve learned that what I do for myself if more important than anything right now. My dilemma is that things are going to be the same for who knows how long while she is working full time and finishing school. I’m still devoting my time to the house and kids 100% with no benefits from her. I know she’s not going to watch them while I try and go out and re-discover myself. I’m also not willing to drop them off with someone else because they mean way too much to me and I already see them suffering. I don’t want to lose my wife I want her to understand that I’ve been making huge sacrifices and she just needs to make some too. She’s already past the point of going with me to get help so I’m doing this alone for as long as I can.

    1. You’re welcome! Sorry to hear you’re going through this, though I’m glad I’ve been of help somehow. Anyway when did all the trouble started and what has caused it? You mentioned having issues the past year but it’s pretty much hard to give solid advice unless we get to the specifics. Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

    2. Found out mine is already dating so when it’s over it’s over. You know when they start acting weird it’s because they are seeing someone behind your back and don’t have the balls to admit it even though you asked… People just shouldn’t get married.

  6. Brad, my wife used to love me very much. Over a span of last 3 yrs I was unavailable to her. Most of that was that I felt she was distant to me. She had self-esteem issues. We’re going on 2 mos now of separation and Ive moved out about a month about, she has filed for divorce, we also have 2 young children . She said she doesn’t love me anymore and she can’t get that back.. that my actions of staying out late with buddies, lack of sex, and emotionally unavailable caused her love to die. Iam sure there isn’t anyone else. I do have both of you programs. Exfactor and Mend. Iam still making a few mistakes. However, its hard to discern where to start to try and rebuild the love when she tells me when its gone, it’s gone. Shld I employ no contact? Shld I just follow mend? Main mistake I make is the arguing. Can I save this? Ok, i just now watched the vid and appended this msg. Makes sense. I hope this works. Please, if you have addtnl advice plz share. This woman and the marriage IS worth fighting for.

    1. Sorry to hear that. When did all the trouble started and what has caused it? This may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WU0yhd3ADXU but it’s really a bit challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation… Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

  7. hey Brad I’ve subscribed and have been watching your videos a ton, this one really hit home. my wife left me last month and just about everything I’m not supposed to do I’ve done. I know I need to change and without her its hard so what do you suggest I do to start turning things around how do I figure out exactly what I need to change and how do I go about doing so with it being very difficult to contact her?

    1. This depends on a lot of things, man. For starters, when did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WU0yhd3ADXU and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_vzHFqnasM&t=7s but it’s really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation… Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

  8. hey I made the mistake and asked to be separated and for the time we where she would beg and beg for me back but now that I want her back she found someone else. I don’t want anymore but her what can I do

  9. hey Brad, my wife agreed to a trial seperation over a few weeks and now she is telling me she is worried that when the time comes to end the separation that she may end up feeling anxiety and depression about coming back into a potentially stressful situation. Is there anyway to aliviate those concerns?

    1. Those are her feelings and hers alone. Let her sort it out since attempting to control it will only drive you crazy. 🙂

    1. Sorry to hear that. What happened prior to things getting to this point? These may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WU0yhd3ADXU and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_vzHFqnasM&t=7s but it’s really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation… Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

    2. Brad Browning hey there great videos, I have a problem that I need help with. My wife told me today that she she is not In love with me anymore and wants a divorce,5 months ago I had a affair and we were trying work it out but it still bothers her and these 2 weeks she barely talks to me does not want to be intimate with me and I suggested counseling but she says she thinks she’s past that?? Can u please help on what i should do I love her and want this to work for us and the kids

    1. I respond to customer emails 100% of the time! And my admin assistant John helps answer all other emails and sometimes forwards them to me for a personal reply. Please ask any quick Q’s here in YouTube comments for my personal 30-second insights, or sign up for my coaching program and we can chat in depth about your situation. All details at http://www.BradBrowning.com — thanks!

  10. Take your wifes needs seriously and you will never be faced with your wife divorcing you in the first place.

    1. Janet Wells Finally the voice of reason! After 25 years together my husband won’t accept that I want out. NOW everything is going to be different…really. And I’m supposed to believe that?

  11. Hi Brad, what happened if my wife brought me a marriage unfair agreement and a divorce agreement? says, if I disagree or cross the line again as she listed on the marriage agreement then the divorce agreement will automatically be effected. Shall I bend myself and sign that unfair marriage agreement ? Or shall I recreate another fair agreement that address the problem and both sides do need to work on it? shall sign both of my newly created marriage statement and divorce agreement ? or shall I just wait?

  12. hi brad thankx for sharing your beautiful experience
    i really need your help now me and my wife we have fight many time and always we get to go back to each other but this time she dont want she is staying ayaw from me closing all the doors on my face when im trying to fix what have happened but no success she said she have take her decision i love her and she still saying she love but she dont trust me and she dont want to comback to me the problem that we have a small kid of 2 years old now im really feeling like helpless child i love her so much we have already send the divorce to court and it took few months to end but she seems she dont want to find a solution when im trying to find solutions she only keeps telling me i dont want i took my decisions she is really made at me and disappointed at me i cant do much when she is stopping me like this she telling stop dont fight i dont want enough i hope sir you can help me because i know i can give my family so much i just want them ba

    1. Sorry to hear that. When did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WU0yhd3ADXU and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_vzHFqnasM&t=7s but it’s really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation… Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

  13. hi brad i would like to sign up for your on line save my marriage
    me and my wife has been married for 18 years 4 weeks ago she ask for time out i begged plead but this is what she wanted now it has been over 1month she seems cold and says i dont know what i want i love my wife very much and dont want to divorce her please help me with this thankyou

    1. When did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These may help: http://y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and http://y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it’s really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation… Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching

    1. You know, that’s true… if you marry the wrong person. 🙂 That’s why you don’t rush the dating phase and spend time being in a relationship first and really get to know the person well before jumping the gun. There’s no rush!

    1. That’s how it always ends! 🙂 It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til’ the end so you don’t end up missing the important points:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeGNPBdpnsI and the top 5 questions here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJGHEtlV1ac

  14. Sorry Brad, you are not qualified to talk about this . Come back in 20 years and see if you are saying the same things.

    1. I find your comment too judgmental. I’ve been coaching people for the past decade or so. That should count for something, no? Who are you to say, otherwise?

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